?I'm not looking for a hookup - if you are, please don't message me. I have met and dated a few women from this website. The thing that is the most difficult for me to find here is a woman who speaks good enough English and who is open with her feelings and thoughts enough that we can have amazing communication and a deep soul to soul connection. I know what I am looking for, and when I find the right person and the right connection I will delete my account here, commit to her and stop messaging others, and I will build a relationship with her by visiting her often in her country and spending lots of time with her on traditional dates etc until we are married and living together in America.

I fly free thanks to my friend who works for American Airlines. I own an online marketing business, travel tons, play sports, surf, love the beach, have 5 amazing kids (2 are grown and moved out and 3 are with me 40% of the time), I've been divorced for 4 years. I am done making babies - so if you absolutely want to have kids some day, I am not the man for you. I'm 47 years old. I live in Utah USA now but I grew up in Southern California near Los Angeles very close to the beach and I will move back there to California when my kids are a little older.